About a month ago we moved. With our little family set to expand in the fall, we decided we needed a slightly larger place to live. We were fortunate to find a two-bedroom apartment only a short distance away from our former one-bedroom dwellings. Even better, it is on the ground floor.
It has been quite a few years since I have moved anywhere. Although I thought I had the perfect moving plan worked out in my mind and although we hired professional movers, I was not prepared for how fatiguing the whole process turned out to be. But I have learned a few things which I plan to incorporate into our next moving plan—whenever that will be—preferably a few years off.
1) Tell everyone you know beforehand that you are moving and when. Also tell them that during the two weeks surrounding the move it will be difficult to answer emails or return phone calls. I only told those closest to me that I was moving and I never bothered to tell them when. The weeks surrounding our move happened to be very busy ones for me at church. But I knew I had to focus on the move and continually felt guilty that I was not answering questions posed in emails or left in voice messages. If I had told everyone in advance that I would be essentially unreachable for two weeks and advised them to contact someone else in my virtual absence I could have saved myself some stress. Those waiting for my answers probably would have felt less stressed also.
2) Pack a suitcase as though you are going on a weekend trip. This is something I learned from Colter. He packed one small suitcase of clothes and toiletries that he knew he would need the weekend of our move. He moved that suitcase himself in his car; so he knew exactly where it was when we got to the new residence. As a result, he had a supply of clean clothes ready to go for several days as well as all of his shaving and shower necessities. I, on the other hand, assumed we would be able to unpack everything much faster than what was truly possible. When Sunday morning came, I spent a frantic time tearing open boxes in vain to find a pair of shoes to wear to church. I finally settled for a pair of shoes with 3 inch heels that had been unpacked already. At six months pregnant, wearing 3 inch heels for three hours, two of them on my feet most of the time, was uncomfortable. (The next day we unpacked the pair of 1 ½ inch heels I had been searching for the day previous.)
3) Know that you will lose things during the move. Even though the two apartments were around the corner from each other; even though we went back and forth between the two apartments several times
after the initial move to do a final sweep of the old apartment, we still managed to lose one fluted glass, our lemonade stirring stick, and a bottle of Resolve carpet cleaner. How they managed to disappear is a mystery; but they are definitely gone. I can only imagine that in a bigger move, more items will mysteriously disappear en route to their new destination.
Our new apartment is still slowly taking shape. We are having to be creative with how we store items. We still have to buy and assemble baby furniture. But in all we are grateful that we were able to find this place and look forward to welcoming our little baby home here come autumn.
